![]() ![]() I’m sorry you’re going through this Navy and I’m sure we’ve all asked ourselves these questions a million times. Sorry I’m angry and just want this year over with. If they can’t/ don’t want to give up then let us go. Now it’s mental health issues that he needs to overcome as it’s not the drug!!!! FFS when do they stop lying to themselves. I don’t think this will work, what happens after 7 days, what happens when we row, what happens when the pressure of works happens, how do they put coping skills into process when they have had 24hr 7 day a week support. I was told the other day that he needs 7 days 24 hours with me……. Why do we keep putting ourselves through this ? Im so lucky to have such great family and friends to support me so Iam very lucky, and that’s why I keep going. I’m fading, I’m not well and I just want to go to sleep and not wake up so so I don’t have to keep going through this. ![]() He tells me how lucky he is to have my support. Sorry for not getting g back earlier, it’s been a short couple of days….well I’m still here hoping to get through Christmas I think he lying to the guys at rehab (online) as I know he used before his session. really hoping it helps me get stronger and perhaps be ready to walk away I’ve been accepted into counselling, they said I need this before I can move onto something like CBT. and so I think he has finally ran out of options…so not sure where he goes from here but I have to stop the enabling We are talkin often £1-£2k… I’m up to my limit on what I can afford to repay, hes borrowed from every friend and mber he can (including my own family, putting me in more debt/embarrassment ). I think he only opens up to me when he needs more £ …he then uses so e of it to pay of the debt instead of promising to totally clear it, and gets more. My OH was ona relapse /bender for over a week and now sulking and depressed and worrying about, yet again how he can pay off his dealers. the good.gets dashed but they open up and talk more and we slowly start to build that hole again and pray they are making progress in the right direction …i think it’s like a game of snakes and ladders…sometimes they land on the ladder….but then slide down a snake….just try and avoid the very long snake all way down to the bottom So sorry to hear this, and totally understand those awful roller coaster of emotions that follow a relapse… We hold onto hope. ![]()
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